# Accepting or rejecting an invitation to connect

When you receive an invitation to connect with another user, a red dot is displayed on the Connections button on the menu screen. If you go to the connections section of the application, a red dot on the Invitations button also indicates that you have a new invitation.

<figure><img src="https://3460182399-files.gitbook.io/~/files/v0/b/gitbook-x-prod.appspot.com/o/spaces%2FwVx6bvwqEE7tD0TYOcfj%2Fuploads%2Fgit-blob-0579bf2b1340333df29a9dcef24d6902c1012634%2Fconnections_indicator.png?alt=media" alt=""><figcaption><p>Example of pending invitations</p></figcaption></figure>

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After you view your pending invitations, the red dot is hidden until the next time that you log in to the application.
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To accept an invitation, complete the following steps:

1. Choose one of the following options:
   * On the menu screen, select **Connections**, and then select **Invitations**.
   * If you're in a Session, open your menu or tablet, select **People** <img src="https://3460182399-files.gitbook.io/~/files/v0/b/gitbook-x-prod.appspot.com/o/spaces%2FwVx6bvwqEE7tD0TYOcfj%2Fuploads%2Fgit-blob-99f3aaebf416ad1425da01bcd6545b7b5c1c0f60%2Fmenu_i_users.png?alt=media&#x26;token=25212cd0-be92-4395-86df-4a3238a43d10" alt="" data-size="line">, and then select **Invitations**.
2. On the **Invitations** page, for the invitation that you want to accept or reject, select <img src="https://3460182399-files.gitbook.io/~/files/v0/b/gitbook-x-prod.appspot.com/o/spaces%2FwVx6bvwqEE7tD0TYOcfj%2Fuploads%2Fgit-blob-ae7e42ba0176ee03a8ad26d34f3c05c6073ba3be%2Ficon_respond.png?alt=media" alt="" data-size="line"> **Respond**.
3. In the panel that appears, select either **Accept** or **Reject**.

<figure><img src="https://3460182399-files.gitbook.io/~/files/v0/b/gitbook-x-prod.appspot.com/o/spaces%2FwVx6bvwqEE7tD0TYOcfj%2Fuploads%2Fgit-blob-91346ef61e99c6e88d13756af30775b8f4be2b3e%2Fconn_respond_invite.jpg?alt=media" alt=""><figcaption><p>Option to respond to an invitation to connect, and the accept or reject panel that it causes to appear</p></figcaption></figure>

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If you reject an invitation, the person that sent it'sn't notified. From their perspective, the invitation remains pending. If you change your mind after you reject a connection, you can follow the instructions to create a invitation. If their invitation to you is still pending, you will automatically connect. For more information, see [inviting-someone-to-connect](https://docs.engagevr.io/engage/essential-features/connections/inviting-someone-to-connect "mention").
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